Relationships

We have all had our hearts broken ATLEAST once in our life. Some have them more than others. It hurts…bad but sometimes we don’t have control over it. Guys seem to know all the right things to say to make a girl fall in love with them and most of the time it works. I know it’s happened to me multiple times and it sucks. It’s one of the hardest things to over come. Sometimes it makes us want to just give up on love all at once but that’s not the answer. I’m not saying its bad to take a break, we all need one of them every now and again. What I am saying is you shouldn’t give up on every guy out there just because your heart got broken. We just have to guard our hearts better and not let the guys in so easily. They like to throw the “L” word around a lot. They may say they “love” you but most the time they don’t. Girls mature and grow up faster than boys do so we are ready for relationships faster than they are. Guys like to mingle and flirt whereas girls don’t like to do that as much. We would rather have a real relationship with a guy that we really like and actually have a commitment. Now don’t get me wrong some guys are ready to settle down but most of them take awhile to get to that stage. I have had many broken hearts because the guy wasn’t ready to have a serious relationship. He wanted to live his life and be a teenager and be free. He didn’t want to settle down and actually take it serious. I got that but it still hurt everytime we broke up. You would think that after going through it so much I would have learned my lesson but I didn’t. I kept going back to him and falling for the same tricks and games. A lot of us girls do this because we actually have true feelings for the guy but what we have to do is take a step back and think about it. Is he being serious this time? Or is it going to be like every other time? You could ask him but he will tell you that he really wants it to work this time. Then after being together for awhile it will go back to the old ways. I have been through it all and I can relate to a lot of things that girls go through with relationships. It’s not always easy but it will be worth it one day when the right guy comes and sweeps you off your feet. Then is when you will realize why it never worked out with any other guy. Just keep in mind that everytime something goes wrong or doesn’t work out the way we want it to that everything happens for a reason. Always remember that things go wrong so that we appriciate them when they are right, and that things don’t work out sometimes because God has something better in mind for us.